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Friday, 06 June 2008

  • Why do woman stay with men who abuse them? Mentally or physically? My friend is with someone who she has never been happy with and now I find out that her boyfriend (who is totally supported by her) is abusive both ways. Not to long ago he shoved her and threw a beer bottle at her! I am so mad at both of them. I am mad at him for treating her that way and I am mad at her for letting it happen. She has kicked him out numerous times and then lets him in within days. It's too much for me to handle. It is so frustrating. She wasted over 5 years of her life on one jerk and now she is doing it again.

Thursday, 05 June 2008

  • I AM SO SO SO SO SO SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Oh my gosh!!!!! My friend just told me that one of my blogs link to a porn site. I have no idea how. I would NEVER do that and I am extremely sorry if anyone else has clicked on that link. I can't find it, it doesn't show up on my screen. Again I am so sorry!!!

Tuesday, 27 May 2008

  • How much do you tip at restaurants or bars?


    I know 15% is what is expected but I don't go off of that. I tip based on how well the waiter or waitress does, how attentive they are and how friendly they are. If they are really great I will tip them really well. If they arent a good waiter or they are rude they will get very little to nothing. Its based on what they do.
       

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  • What is so hard???

    What is so hard about making sure when your kids go somewhere for the weekend or a few days that they have everything that they need. Such as, a clean change of clothes, clean change of underwear, socks and so on.....I just dont get what is about going over to the closet or drawer, pulling out the things they need, putting  it in a bag???? hmmmmmm.

    Tati and Kas came over this weekend and before I picked them up I asked Grisel to make sure that they had the things they needed. Tati had no change of clothes or underwear, Kasandra had no underwear and we couldnt go to church because she didnt pack there church clothes, which I asked her to pack. Now she's trying to say it's my fault and that I should have those things here. Okay. I agree with having toothbrushes here but she needs to provide the clothes. I will keep some here for them but Im not going out and buying them right now. I buy them things but it's not my responsibility to make sure that they have what they need. Thats there mothers job. She says I should have church clothes for them here and other clothes. So that means I have to go out and buy two dresses, socks, two pairs of dress shoes and underwear, plus play clothes??? Am I the only one who thinks thats not right?

    I would go to my Aunts house or other family members houses for a weekend to months in the summer and my mom would make sure I had more than enough. They would buy me things cuz they wanted to but they didnt feel they had to provide what my mother should. And the thing is, is that I am always surprised. I ask her to make sure they have these things and she never says anything, so I assume that they have it.. When we are about to go somewhere I find they have nothing to wear. I dont think its right. I would never do that to Lexie. I want her to look nice when she goes any where. I feel it is a reflection on me as a mother, how my kids are dressed and taken care of. I would never think to not pack underwear or a clean change of clothes. It is my responsibility. Not the people I am sending her to, no matter if they are family or not. If they want to treat her and get her an outfit, awesome, if not I know that I packed the things she needs to get by. grrrrrrr.

Sunday, 25 May 2008

  • When you look at where you are in your life, are you "behind"? Ahead? Right where you want to be?

    I am very happy with where I am in life. I am married to an amazing guy. We have two kids, a boy and a girl. We have a beautiful home. My husband makes great money so I am able to raise my kids. Most of my friends who have kids have to work and I thank God for blessing me and allowing me to take care of my kids and raise them at home. Life is really good. I wish that I had a career figured out for sure but I have time. I really want to get my Real Estate lisence but I am taking my time with that. God has really blessed me and I feel very fortunate.

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  • I am married to Tony. We have two children. Lexie (3 years old) and Christian (4 months old). I am in school to get my Real Estate license. Anything else you would like to know you can ask.

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